How to Ask Questions on Twitter and Get Responses


My friend Maria Reyes McDavis recently interviewed me to ask how I get people to respond to my Tweets. (You can get the audio and downloadable action guide HERE)

In that interview, I covered a few of my strategies such as asking a great question and watching how people respond.The interview and action guide go into greater detail with steps how you can do this yourself, but I wanted to point out a few tips as I get asked about this strategy frequently.

Here are 3 tips (and 1 bonus video!) to show you how to effectively ask questions on Twitter and get great responses.

1. Stay curious
As soon as the Tweeples sense a hidden agenda, they’re not going to respond. So phrase your questions in a way that keeps the perspective simple and curious.

Examples of simple and curious questions:

“What do you think about XYZ?”

“Has anyone ever tried ABC?”

Don’t be too vague, either; then you won’t stand out. So if your question is simply “How’s everyone doing today?” it conveys friendliness but anyone could ask that.

You’re just a collector of information at this point. Watch who responds, click over to check who they are and what relevance they have to your question.
2. Build trust

Everyone’s out there hawkin’ something on Twitter now, so naturally the resistance levels in the Twitterverse are rising.

You need to build trust. Make sure your Tweets, or even the questions you ask, are varied. It’s perfectly fine to go off-topic.(I’ve been known to Tweet requests for recipes, home remedies, etc. Not related to my marketing, but keeps the trust levels high. And I truly Tweet those requests in the moment, Twitter is my new 411)

Trust builders can ask about the little things in life and not necessarily relate back to your business. In essence, you’re giving your followers opportunities to read and respond to you.
3. Avoid questions that sound like veiled pitches
Read the following questions and ask yourself whether you’d want to click:

“Want to make gr8 money? Click here I’ll show you how!”

“What’s ur single biggest challenge to selling more of ur stuff?”

The “single biggest challenge” question and the obvious “get rich quick” are big turn offs.  They sound more like classified ads than Tweets.

Here’s an alternative: try asking questions to find out the likes and dislikes of your followers. People love sharing their opinions, and when posed in a non-salesy way, they’ll respond.

If you sound like you’re trying to sell, people will pick that up right away and put up their walls of resistance.

Keep things simple. Use questions to connect, to learn, and to provide value.

Video Bonus:

I posted this video on a related post  in October 2008, but am including it here so you can see even more examples of how to do this. And for a more detailed approach, be sure to check out the audio and action guide I created with Maria Reyes McDavis.


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About Nancy Marmolejo

I'm a soul-driven strategist who teaches entrepreneurs how to turn followers into fans and fans into clients using social media and heart based marketing. My approach integrates proven strategies and intuitive hits so each client finds her special way to stand out and sizzle in the spotlight.

  • http://www.MarketingQi.com/blog Ellen Britt, PA, Ed.

    Great advice Nancy! I agree that Twitter is maturing somewhat. Knowing how to phrase questions that are not a turn-off is key.

    <abbr>Ellen Britt, PA, Ed.D.s last blog post..Masterminds – Three Must-Have Elements for Success</abbr>

  • http://www.copy-cat-copywriting.com Cathy Goodwin

    Twitter has become my "411" too. Great source of recipes and nutrition info.

  • http://www.DefytheBox.com Leah Shapiro

    Thanks for the great suggestions! I find your material so helpful.

    <abbr>Leah Shapiros last blog post..Defy the Box Radio Starts Tuesday April 14th at 9 PM EST</abbr>

  • http://www.vivavisibilityblog.com Nancy Marmolejo

    Leah, really glad you're enjoying this! I bet you could ask some darn good Box Defying questions too!

  • http://www.sheilafinkelstein.com Sheila Finkelstein

    Great stuff to remember. Makes me sorry I didn't think to Tweet – "Keep or discard a 3 lb brisket supermarket-wrapped not put in refrig for 12 hours?" I chucked it. "Better safe than sorry."

  • http://www.getmarketadvantage.com Andrea Harriott

    Thanks for the Tips. Looking forward to even more when we meet on the call next Tuesday. BTW love your pics!

    <abbr>Andrea Harriotts last blog post..Don’t Just Sit There – Do SOMETHING</abbr>

  • http://www.resolutioncoaching.co.uk Wendy Dashwood-Quick

    Thanks for this Nancy, and might go a long way to prevent me having total amnesia every time I log onto Twitter. :o )

  • http://blog.planitwithlisa.com Lisa Almeida

    Love your advice to "keep it simple," Nancy. You know I'm a big fan of results via simplicity :)

  • http://www.prosperouscoachblog.com Rhonda Hess, Coachin

    Ah, the art of curiosity! You're so clever to share this, Nancy. I'm grateful!

    <abbr>Rhonda Hess, Coaching Business Success Strategists last blog post..Four Roads to Coaching Success</abbr>

  • http://awakenyoursoul.wordpress.com Peggie Arvidson

    Nancy – - thanks for sharing this. I love Twitter and expect that as it hits critical mass, like FB did,, something new will emerge for all the folks who do their best to avoid being pitched. What do you think? I always look forward to tweaking my twitter use with your thoughts and recommendations and I encourage all my begining twitter students to seek you out as a key resource for making twitter WORK!

    Best,

    <abbr>Peggie Arvidsons last blog post..Books & the Quest For Knowledge</abbr>

  • http://www.vivavisibilityblog.com Nancy Marmolejo

    There's a lot to be said for keeping things simple and staying curious! Everyone wants to connect and engage, we just need to make it easier for others.

  • http://VisionForSuccess.biz Ali

    I love this post so much, Nancita, that I shared it on my Facebook.

    ….and your Twitter call yesterday was so helpful. Tons of great tips.

    Gracias, Comadre! As usual, you rock???

    I shared this post on my Facebook ?

    <abbr>Alis last blog post..Stop Email waste!</abbr>

  • http://www.Sparkle-Plenty.com Lee Romano Sequeira

    Great tips! I try to mix a bit of pleasure and business, and just cannot believe how many send their free "gifts" in their first automated follow tweet. Hellooooo..I have not even tweeted you back yet!!

  • Kendall SummerHawk

    LOVED this article Nancy! Sometimes it's tough to have tweets reflect the full expression of our voice, since the actual human being isn't present. I've asked the "#1 biggest challenge" type question before, from a place of wanting to know what REALLY is most important to someone. From now on, I'll frame it differently so my intention comes authentically. Hugs to ya!

  • http://www.coachmaria.com Maria Marsala, Strat

    Yes, post recipes. I was amazed at the number of folks clicked on the recipes link I sent them. These are all business owners and were used to getting business tips for me.

    Reminds me of how important it is to repost good posts :) (as I go to twitter again)

  • http://www.vivavisibilityblog.com Nancy Marmolejo

    My food/recipe Tweets get so much attention it's amazing! Maybe on an energetic level people know it's coming soooooo from the heart (and the gut, literally!). most requested recipe: Roasted Crispy Kale.

    Trim Kale from the stems, cut into 2 inch pieces.
    Toss in a little olive oil and sea salt. (Option: garlic powder, chile powder)

    Lay it out on a big pan, bake 425 degrees F for 10 min.
    toss around with a spatula, roast another 5 min.

    Keep tossing and checking til they're crispy, be careful not to burn.

    I have no responsibility if you become addicted to these. i think it's a better addiction to have than Twitter! LOL!!!

  • http://www.CalltoActionWebsites.com Phyllis Zimbler Mill

    I loved your phrase that Twitter is your new 411. Mine too! We had a problem yesterday that our host server couldn't solve. I told Yael (@MillerMosaicLLC) to get the answer on Twitter — and she did! It was the host server's problem but we didn't know the right question to ask. Now we do!

    @ZimblerMiller

    <abbr>Phyllis Zimbler Millers last blog post..The Most Important Reason You Should Be Involved in Social Media and Blogs</abbr>