Social Media Time Wasters


Have you ever fallen into a Facebook stupor? You know, you lose track of time clicking and commenting then suddenly realize 3 hours have gone by.

You feel a tinge of guilt… maybe an upwelling of justification as you struggle to figure out if you just wasted your time or were diligently schmoozing your network.

Everyone wants to know what constitutes time well spent and time wasted on Facebook, Twitter, etc.  So how do you know the difference?

Let’s play here for a moment. Look over the following list and think to yourself which ones seem like complete and total time wasters and which seem like they’d point to profits.

  • Tweeting about food and drink.
  • Tweeting about kids, pets, vacations, hobbies
  • Scanning the Facebook feed and commenting on photos, videos, etc.
  • Adding Facebook applications.
  • Tweeting about what you’re working on
  • Contributing to group discussions (via hashtags, tweetchats, Facebook groups, Linked In groups, etc)
  • Tweeting your blog posts
  • Retweeting information you find useful

The answer?

Time wasters: All of them.

Wise use of time: All of them.

Dang, I tricked you!

Well, not really. What I want to point out is that it’s not the individual ACTIONS you take, it’s how and why they fit into your overall STRATEGY.

Some people Tweet about food and it’s completely pointless. And then someone (OK, I confess, I’m the “someone”) will Tweet about the crispy roasted kale I just pulled from the oven and guess what? I start getting direct messages from people and next thing you know I’ve got a new client or a speaking gig that brings in thousands of dollars.

What’s the difference?

Your overall strategy can’t rely only on metrics, such as how many Tweets will result in a sale, or how many followers do I need to make $100,000.

A huge part of  NOT wasting time is to know the value of engagement and how your conversations will lead to clients. Taking the time to understand who is in your network, what connects you, how to pique their interest, and how to build a community of followers and fans will save you hours and hours of time.

When you approach your social networking with a strong sense of purpose, when you know exactly what you want to get out of it and how you’ll leverage your relationships, then every moment spent will be intentional and focused.

It’s the lack of focus that wastes time…  not the Tweeting about food, kids, pets, and everyday events.

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About Nancy Marmolejo

I'm a soul-driven strategist who teaches entrepreneurs how to turn followers into fans and fans into clients using social media and heart based marketing. My approach integrates proven strategies and intuitive hits so each client finds her special way to stand out and sizzle in the spotlight.

  • http://melanie-writeon.blogspot.com Melanie Kissell

    "Leverage your relationships" – I like that. To me, that phrase really sums up the whole social media desired goal. It's not about how many people you can rack up in a week. I get so sick of seeing people push that philosophy and practice.

    You're helping folks to GET REAL and GET RECOGNIZED and GET RESULTS!
    .-= Melanie Kissell´s last blog ..YouTube is the 4th Most Visited Site – 85 Million People Can't Be Wrong! =-.

  • http://VisionForSuccess.biz Ali Rodriguez

    This is priceless Nancy! – I'm sharing the "LuVing" ??
    .-= Ali Rodriguez´s last blog ..Is There A Formula That Rules How Much Money You’ll Make In Business? =-.

  • http://www.linkedin.com/in/chrisshallow Chris

    You make some excellent points, Nancy, even if he tricked us! We should never forger the 'social' part of social media marketing! 8-)

  • http://www.linkedin.com/in/chrisshallow Chris

    Oops! 'you' not 'he' and 'forget' not 'forger'; I shouldn't attempt to multi-task the male brain is not designed for it! 8-)

  • http://www.BoomerangPresentations.com Lily Iatridis

    Dear Nancy,

    You sure tricked me! I consider myself a relative newbie on social media, and although I find it fun, I'm still somewhat unclear on how online community and relationship building works to grow your biz. I'll be sure to keep on reading your posts!

    By the way, thanks for your staff's recommendation of Sandra Martini's Social Networking Done for U program. After about two months of research on social media support, I went with your staff's suggestion, and I'm loving their attentive customer service.

    Here's to becoming a social media pro in no time!

    All the best,

    Lily

  • http://www.vivavisibilityblog.com Nancy Marmolejo

    Thanks for the feedbac, and Chris I forger he all the time so it's all good. :-)

    Would love to hear people's thoughts on how peeps are out there leveraging relationships. Any real life examples to share? :-)
    N

  • http://www.MakewebsiteProfits.com Cathy Goodwin

    So true! If you want to come across as a 3D person all those personal tweets make sense. One of my own exercises is to take the famous "I just ate a donut" and show how to make this comment relevant, depending on who you are and what your strategy is.

  • http://www.vivavisibilityblog.com Nancy Marmolejo

    Cathy, you can't leave us hanging! I'd love to learn more about you "I just ate a donut" strategy. Love that! Makes me hungry too, even though I'm still off wheat (8 months and counting!)

  • http://www.SalesMastersInternational.com Sharon Quarmby

    I must be a slow learner b/c I'm kind of finally "getting" what it is to engage a bit with twitter and facebook. I do wish I had a plan. I'm using Sandy's "Done 4 U" and it's great….I just wish it was even more done 4 me!

    I wish I really knew what to tweet to pique the interest of people who could possibly be clients. I respond to people I'm following (& Buy!). I want the same to happen to me.

    I can't take the class right now I'm in overwhelm with Kendall's CMMS training, recovering from surgery, etc.. but want to take it when you offer it again.

    Thanks Nancy!

  • http://www.passionforbusiness.com Karyn Greenstreet

    Hi, Nancy, here's a real-life example:

    Yesterday I posted a note on my Facebook page about how our cat brought a dead mouse into the house, got chased around by us (looking like idiots), and eventually dropped the dead mouse in the cat toy box alongside her catnip toys.

    My peeps loved that note and shared so many stories of the cool things their cats have done (with and without dead critters).

    It was a great non-business post, just a funny story I wanted to share. I got THREE emails from people who had seen or commented about that post, thanking me for it, and asking me if I had any openings for private clients. One person even said, "If you have six cats, you're my kind of business coach!" (Kitties got an extra treat last night for giving me the funny story, too.)

    It's not just the "here is what I offer in my business" posts that get attention. When we're acting real, authentic, human…people can see and touch us in a new way. And we get to connect so beautifully with our clients and students, really communicating about ALL that matters to us in our worlds.

    Thanks for the great blog post and for reminding us to be strategic about using social media without becoming an automaton.

  • http://www.vivavisibilityblog.com Nancy Marmolejo

    Karyn: Love that! Hey, I'm a cat lover too, maybe I'm a future client of yours too! :-)

    Sharon: I hope the overwhelm subsides, sometimes even talking about that can connect you to people. There's no formula, just pretend you're walking into a room and want to strike up a conversation. How's the weather? Nice jacket. Stuff like that. Give it a try, maybe it will help your overwhelm!

  • http://VisionForSuccess.biz Ali Rodriguez

    My approach is about "sharing the Luv" as I recognize others doing great things, and then they top themselves one more time. It leaves me breathless to see such brilliance, so I look for those who are always evolving, connect with them, and RT their worthiness, which in turn, becomes one big Happy Hour, Happy Meal, Happy Family! There, I just gave you the Big three H's ? -

    Great collaboration, JVs and awesome clients come from it.
    .-= Ali Rodriguez´s last blog ..Is There A Formula That Rules How Much Money You’ll Make In Business? =-.

  • http://sparkactionnow.com Marian Sparks!

    Hi Nancy,

    What a fun and focused post! You make the case for how to have strategically engaging conversations that deliver results. Unbeknownst to the untrained eye, there's a method to the "babble" (at least that's what the "latest research" floating around Twitter calls it).

    And the beauty is that people who don't get the subtleties and the artistry of social conversation will continue to miss out and use 'hard' sell tacks that alienate a large segment of the population with money to spend! (be they have needs too!)

    Keep the sizzle coming!
    .-= Marian Sparks!´s last blog ..21 Proven Ways to Eliminate Distractions Creatively And Get More Done (Part 2) =-.

  • http://www.websites2grow.com Jennifer Haubein

    Hi Nancy,

    I love this article! I just wrote a similar article in my ezine a little bit ago, because I was starting to feel Twitter taking over my life. But now I have a system and love it. I recommend social media to all of my clients, but admit it has them a little overwhelmed sometimes. Thanks for the great advice!

  • http://www.shawndriscoll.com Shawn Driscoll

    Great post Nancy! (as always)

    Many of my colleagues and friends just don't get the value of all the social networking, especially Twitter. My twitter strategy is simple. I just look at it like I'm at one big conference and we're on break. How would I interact with my fellow conference goers? I might talk about how great the lunch was! I might comment on something they said that got my attention. I might tell them some funny story about my kids. I might mention what I have coming up. It's all about being real. Twitter gives me a way to connect with amazing people from the convenience of my office. That has led to JV opportunities, speaking opportunities and clients for me.

  • http://www.vivavisibilityblog.com Nancy Marmolejo

    Jennifer, thanks for the feedback and would love to hear about your system!
    Shawn, I love your analogy of being on break at a big conference. Twitter is so much about the empty space in between bigger conversations, but knowing it can lead to the big conversations is what it's all about.

  • http://bestlifedesign.com DrMollieMarti

    Great post, Nancy! (and I also frequently use "trick" Qs in trainings – keeps audience & readers awake! haha).

    I love Jennifer's analogy, too! General twitter stream similar to one big conference with the "let's talk more about this!!!" leading to the DM box.

    I initially gave twitter a 6 month trial period. During this period, I worked out a system to make it work for my biz – and my life! I didn't need that long to see its value – both tangible and intangible.

    Twitter – and social media – bring me more money, fun, and ability to do good in the world. Keep up your great work in helping others use these tools effectively and profitably!

  • http://www.vivavisibilityblog.com Nancy Marmolejo

    Dr. Mollie: you know, I didn't set out to do a "trick question" but looks like it really kept everyone on their toes! You're smart for having set parameters for Twitter. 6 months and some specific goals can make a world of difference for people who are trudging along. It's important to keep everything in context and yes… FUN must be an underlying thread in all this.

  • http://SpiritofHorsemanship.blog.com Pamela DeMuth

    Found this post via twitter. Thanks again for great tips. I was waiting to see which of your above list was best so it was a surprise! I am just starting on social media – per your suggestions on the Spiritual Marketing Teleseminar. Facebook is going pretty well, but I am still getting used to twitter and have some further research to do.
    .-= Pamela DeMuth´s last blog ..Please Wait for Me =-.

  • http://www.MarketingForBrilliance.com Sharon Quarmby

    Thanks for replying Nancy!

    I'm getting there! Slowly but surely.

    Sharon