Social Media Tip: Go Micro


Forget climbing to 6 digits on Twitter, and ditch the “approve anyone and everyone” policy on Facebook.

Hello Kitty microscope from www.faizscientific.com

Hello Kitty microscope from www.faizscientific.com

If you’re like most people who’ve followed that advice, you’re probably looking at a bunch of strangers who crowd your Facebook wall with Blingee postcards and spam you with Mafia Wars invites.

Resist the urge to go for the numbers.

The word for this year: Micro


Of course you need to build a network, so don’t misunderstand this as an invitation to have a network of 3.

But too many people are missing the golden opportunities simply because they’re stuck in the spin cycle of still trying to win the popularity contest.

I want you to wake up everyday and love your business. I don’t want you to lament to your friends that Twitter isn’t as fun as it was a year ago (which, sadly is kinda true but let’s take the optimists trail, shall we?)

Here is my advice to you if you want to stay loving social media… and still bring in an income. Remember: it’s not about who has the most friends, it’s about who’s making the valuable (read: profitable) connections.

1. Cherry Pick Your Top 20%

The 80/20 rule lives.  Look at your social networks as a reality show and everyone is vying for a spot in the top 20%. If not, vote them off the island. Focus on building strong relationships and win-win situations for your top 20%.

2. Focus on Know, Like, Trust

It hasn’t gone out of style to be authentic. Be your best self out there: provide valuable information, constantly work on your credibility, and gain the trust of those who know you.

3. Rework Your Offers

With a smaller, more focused network you can actually spend your time connecting to prospects and opportunities… instead of sending Tweet after Tweet for a free call that may or may not convert into clients.

Always in your back pocket have a couple offers at different price points. And if you’re cultivating a referral network, be sure to make it easy for your network to send business to you!

4. Repeat 1-3

We’re in the “Keep it Simple” era. Social media started off nice and easy, then it got bulky and clunky. These 3 steps will help you focus on what counts.

You get to decide:

Door Number 1: Popular and Unprofitable

Door Number 2: Focused and Financially Sound

Hmmmm… I’ll take Door #2. I sense a scary guy with a Bozo wig behind Door #1!

Please drop a comment below… what do you think? What are you going to do to optimize your opportunities this year?


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About Nancy Marmolejo

I'm a soul-driven strategist who teaches entrepreneurs how to turn followers into fans and fans into clients using social media and heart based marketing. My approach integrates proven strategies and intuitive hits so each client finds her special way to stand out and sizzle in the spotlight.

  • http://virtualeventsuccess.com Leesa Barnes

    How timely is this! I just blogged about why I uncare about unfollows. I do agree with you that it's about the micro, niche communities now. I've been looking at the numbers for my 2010 Social Media Telesummit. The number of impressions and clickthroughs are way down compared to the last 2 years, however, the number of attendees registered are up. I didn't send out broadcasts on Facebook or scheduled canned tweets on Twitter. Instead, I reached out to my email list and specifically, alumni who registered for the virtual event over the past 2-years. It's incredible how much less effort you have to put into marketing when you market to a niche list of those who know, like and trust. Oh, this is bringing on a blog post. Off to write it…

  • http://www.VivaVisibilityBlog.com NancyMarmolejo

    Leesa, I think you and I both have experienced success with social media because we started with a focus on quality. In social media years, you and I are about 100! LOL!Yours is a great example of the most profitable part of any business cycle: RETENTION. You've won the trust of many through your years of integrity and this year's telesummit is proof that it's way easier to sell to people who already love you than to people who don't know you yet. I'm looking forward to being a presenter on your telesummit! I've already alerted some of my followers that my focus for the upcoming year is changing dramatically… my presentation at your telesummit will be a preview of the shape of things to come.

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  • http://www.indiebusinessblog.com Donna Maria Coles Jo

    Great post! I built IBN on this very philosophy. I could have started a trade organization to serve the masses. Instead, I focused on the place where 3 important things converge: my passion, my expertise and a need in the marketplace. Ten years and thousands of people later, I know that this "passion, expertise, need" focus works, regardless of the numbers. While I do not agree that numbers are unimportant, I do believe they are overrated. Refusing to give them more credit than they deserve has freed me to focus on leaving a legacy and making a lasting difference in the lives of the people I serve. Thank you for a great post!

  • shannoncherry

    Geesh! My head is hurtin' with all the nodding in agreement I am doing. At the end of last year, it hit me that I was sick of watching the numbers and wanted to have real relationships with real people who really wanted to know the real me. (REALLY!)So I have been pairing down a lot: from more than 15,000 followers on Twitter to 11,000 or so and still chopping.And my goal for this year is to do the same with my email lists. It can be scary, because we've always been taught that popularity means a lot of people know who you are. What I realized is this: I was prom queen once, it was way too much work to try to please everyone. I'd rather make money than be popular; that way I can buy my tiara – and it's less exhausting.

  • http://www.VivaVisibilityBlog.com NancyMarmolejo

    Shannon, careful you don't injure yourself with all that nodding in agreement! You're very brave to embark on the cleaning up process of "scrubbing" your list and followers. I hope we get a blog post from you on how you do it! I know you're big on list building, so it would be really interesting for all of us to see how you build a list and pare down a list at the same time. It sounds like distilling it down to the best matches!

  • Anonymous

    Darn it! I thought for sure you'd comment on the prom queen stuff! LOL! (You can borrow my tiara anytime!)

    Happy to do a post on it. I'll be doing the scrub at month's end. So stay tuned.

  • http://twitter.com/empowermentdiva Robin Tramble

    I like. I like. I started on twitter wishing for 100 followers. I soonhad a mindset shift to quality relationship building and now haveover 5500 friends. And no I can't say that everyone of them areactive, (ha!) however, it is au naturale' . Carrie Wilkerson shared on hercall that one of the most important areas now is that of relationships.We have been operating from a "what can I get" mentality as opposedto giving or adding value. I like the micro concept as well.Thanks for this value added post.RobinThe Dynamite "Authentic Life" EmpowermentMentor,Trainer,Coach and Public Speaker P.S. Leesa thanks for the insight on reaching out to yourniche list.

  • http://www.katannutadiamonds.co.za Clare Appleyard

    Great New Year post Nancy, and compliments of the season to you!I'm definitely in agreement – now, the only trick is going to be to find the time to prune that friend list!

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  • http://www.thebusinesssecretary.com/ Linda Turner

    I totally agree, I was thinking about this last night after I checked my facebook page shortly after I had friend a couple of people, now mind you we had 9 other friends in common so I think this person is cool right? NO!Nothing could be further from the truth….I was immediately loaded up with a lot of pls check this MLM oppty out in my email box on facebook. I have several people in mind to unfriend on facebook as well as twitter. I think it rude to immediately start sending me mail about some affiliate product that you are promoting…seems kinda desperate to me.Nancy as always thanks for the post.Thanks for the post!

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  • Laurie

    Nancy – Great, smart, funny and insightful post on popularity. I have been trying to figure out how to "unsubscribe" from groups in Facebook. I get SO many invitations to groups I no longer want to participate in. Happy New, Lighter & Authentic 2010 2 U!Laurie

  • http://www.facebook.com/LeeCredicott Lee Credicott

    Thank you Nancy for the great advice, It takes time to collect a mass amount of followers if that is what you choose and when you do you become bombarded with join this, go here and sign up for that everyone wanting a piece of your time to show you what they do.It can add stress to your day as you deal with this and it eats up your time. Where that same amount of time could be used to get to know and build a friendship where both people win.

  • http://www.DebraBerg.com/ Debra Berg

    It's so nice to hear you say this Nancy! It grants me permission to be choosy on who I approve and spend time with. It's still challenging but at least I won't be entertaining the slick and weird crowd that may sabotage my credibility.

  • http://www.e-businessmoms.com/blog ebusinessmom

    Awesome post Nancy. I agree 100%. I've had the experience of following everyone who followed me on Twitter and it has become a nightmare of people sending me business opportunities, affiliate products, etc. You want people who are interested in what you have to share and not people who want to shove their stuff in your face. Those people never take the time to get to know you. It's all about self-promoting… even on Facebook. I've learned my lesson because over 6,000 spamming followers on Twitter means absolutely nothing. I'm all for micro.

  • http://www.VivaVisibilityBlog.com NancyMarmolejo

    Smart micro… remember, we're aiming for the top!

  • http://www.VivaVisibilityBlog.com NancyMarmolejo

    Debra, looks like everyone is feeling a big sense of relief on this one. Numbers have their place when growing smart numbers… but we aren't robots!

  • http://www.VivaVisibilityBlog.com NancyMarmolejo

    Absolutely Lee. There are a lot of broke entrepreneurs on Twitter…. but hey, they've got 10,000 friends! <shrug>

  • http://www.VivaVisibilityBlog.com NancyMarmolejo

    Not wanting to be anti-social, but while you're at it, be sure to block those post card applications people use to send you their warmest mass produced thoughts. (Dang it I'm snarky today!)

  • http://www.VivaVisibilityBlog.com NancyMarmolejo

    Just delete and move on. Good luck!

  • http://www.VivaVisibilityBlog.com NancyMarmolejo

    Excellent point, Clare. If you invest 20 minutes a week, you can prune down quite a bit. Start with the spammers, people with no profile pic, and people who you have absolutely no idea in the world who they are or how you got into each other's networks. I always find that helpful.

  • http://www.VivaVisibilityBlog.com NancyMarmolejo

    Great advice from Carrie, I wholeheartedly agree!

  • http://www.VivaVisibilityBlog.com NancyMarmolejo

    Please.. that was going to be my follow up question! You mean being prom queen isn't all it's cracked up to be? Well, you just healed some decades old wounds in my psyche.

  • http://www.katannutadiamonds.co.za Clare Appleyard

    20 mins a week? That's eminently do-able. Great suggestions on where to start pruning – thank you. Turfing people whose language I don't speak is also a good starting point. Unfortunately, that means if you don't speak English, lo siento por ustedes :-)

  • http://www.richlifemarketing.com/ Meredith Liepelt

    Amen sister! My word for the year: simplify. And I'm totally loving and benefitting from it. Love this post.

  • http://www.VivaVisibilityBlog.com NancyMarmolejo

    Thanks Meredith! I live that : simplify. I feel relieved just envisioning it. Here's to a simply wonderful year. :-)

  • http://www.richlifemarketing.com/ Meredith Liepelt

    Amen sister! My word for the year: simplify. And I'm totally loving and benefitting from it. Love this post.

  • http://www.VivaVisibilityBlog.com NancyMarmolejo

    Thanks Meredith! I live that : simplify. I feel relieved just envisioning it. Here's to a simply wonderful year. :-)

  • http://www.VivaVisibilityBlog.com NancyMarmolejo

    "Turfing"… like that word!

  • http://www.VivaVisibilityBlog.com NancyMarmolejo

    “Turfing”… like that word!

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Beth-Earle/100000749007982 Beth Earle

    I'm steadily growing my # of Facebook and twitter connections. I never bought into the idea that I should accept everyone who asks so that I will quickly have a huge # of people following me. That may happen in the long term, but for now I'm pleased with how social media has benefited me personally as well as my business with just a few hundred followers so far.Instead, I check each request carefully to see if we are a good fit for one another. I choose like-minded people, people who make good mentors and can teach me something, those who may be prospects for my coaching business, those in my local area,etc. On my social media pages I interact with my "peeps" regularly, offer business & life tips, share personal happenings, interesting articles & videos, quotes, etc. Retweeting to help promote others is something that makes me feel good about doing as well. It's not all about me, but is really about the great relationships I'm building with others who "get" me.P.S. Shannon, hope you don't delete me when you scrub your list!

  • http://www.VivaVisibilityBlog.com NancyMarmolejo

    Great strategy, Beth! Thanks for giving us such a concrete example. This is what it looks like, peeps! Pay attention.:-)

  • http://www.mydivabydesign.com Christina

    I like this article and I agree with #2 strategy! I am changing my business to helping small business owners get started with social media. This article was a big help to me in finding ways to explain how social media can help their brick and mortar business. Thank you! I am working on my new website right now! <a href="http://www.mydivabydesign.com” target=”_blank”>www.mydivabydesign.com

  • http://www.VivaVisibilityBlog.com NancyMarmolejo

    Good luck Christina! That's a hot niche to work in. Glad you enjoyed the article.