Social Networking Mindset Tip #1: It’s Not About Numbers


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roulette wheelAs internet marketers transition to the fast changing world of social marketing, people are learning that hard-sell and relentless pressure aren’t welcome. The generation gap becomes a profit-crushing divide as “old-school” methods fail to fit in the sleek world of sites like Facebook, Twitter, and Linked In.

In the world of social networking, the hard sell approach is as welcome as “granny panties” in Victoria’s Secret. You certainly stand out when you take the old-school approach with social networking… but it’s not standing out in a good way. You stand out as being outdated and unable to navigate the streams of Web 2.0.

The primary difference you’ll encounter has to do with numbers, but not in the way you may think.

Numbers are crucial to traditional internet marketers, from opt-ins to web visitors to conversion rates. But with social networking the focus on quantity is not nearly as important as the focus on quality. When you focus on quality, you set up criteria that weigh the importance of each contact a little differently.

Here are some tips to consider when connecting with people via social networking sites. You are to use these criteria when building your contacts and investing your time into relationship building:

1. How is this person related to my target market? For example, is this a member of my target market or is she in front of my target market?

2. What do I have that would be of benefit to this person? What can I give (it’s not all about taking, remember!)

3. What is this person’s sphere of influence? Does this person have contacts that I’d like to get to know?

4. Where is this person heading professionally? Do we have similar destinations? Similar goals?

5. Where does this person hang around? Are there groups or sites she is most active on?

6. Do I feel a sense of synergy? Does this person seem “likeable”?

When you examine your internet marketing through a social networking lens, you may first want to resist as it goes against the traditional numbers approach. Numbers are still important, but more importantly are the habits and networks of your contacts.

One incredible contact could yield more business for you than 1000 mediocre misfits.

Take a look at your social networking criteria. Ask yourself if you are focusing on quality or quantity. How do you tell the difference? Use these questions to guide your efforts.

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About Nancy Marmolejo

I'm a soul-driven strategist who teaches entrepreneurs how to turn followers into fans and fans into clients using social media and heart based marketing. My approach integrates proven strategies and intuitive hits so each client finds her special way to stand out and sizzle in the spotlight.

  • http://www.everydaymarketingideas.com Chris Moran

    Nice writing style. Looking forward to reading more from you.

    Chris Moran

  • http://www.thepowerpublicist.com Shannon

    Nancy,

    You are soooo right. We need to focus on building quality, targeted relationships.

    After all you can have 1000 of Facebook friends and the like, but if they are interested in you and what you have so say, it's a waste of your time!

    Great post!

  • http://www.AnnePreston.ca Anne

    Hey Nancy,

    I really appreciated this post as I have been thinking a lot as to whether all the people who I have attracted to my social media tribes are those – who I am most meant to serve.

    It's interesting that I choose quite consciously what I read, what I watch on TV, and yet, I had not yet done the same thing as I start to get my feet wet in social marketing.

    More than a few times a day – as I watch message after message come in – I am often surprised to find my sensitivities are poked by either language, values or perspectives that are so different from my preferred aware style.

    Sometimes it the differences seem so extreme that I just find myself getting quiet for a while.

    Your post reminds me that I truly get to design who I am in relationship with – and what messages I open myself up as I allow others to market themselves to me.

    Thanks Nancy.

  • http://www.vivavisibility.com Nancy Marmolejo

    I would suggest you not be afraid to "unfriend" someone. If we can't set those types of boundaries with total strangers, how can we set them in other aspects of life?

    Food for thought!

    Nancy

  • http://www.VisionForSuccess.biz Ali

    Granny Panties in Victoria's Secrets World????????

    Oh my goodness….What a way to drive your point….

    Is this like….being trapped in George Clooney's world?

    Muah, Muah:)

  • http://www.balance-your-health.com Hiram

    Great tip. It's like setting any other kind of goal – if you don't have one, you never know where you'll end up. With social networking, knowing what you want to achieve is key to making it work for you. If you do don't do this, all social networking will do for you is suck up all your time.

    Looking forward to your next tip!

    Hiram
    http://www.balance–your-health.com

    Hirams last blog post..The Real Story of Greenland

  • http://www.siafu.org/ Social Bookmarks

    I don't normally leave comments… but I really enjoyed your post! I will be leaving a link back here in my blogroll! Thanks!

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