Soft Selling Doesn’t Mean “Stop Offering”


As I get ready to co-host the program Soft Selling With Social Media with Natasha Allrich, I’m getting a lot of questions from people about the difference between a hard sell and a soft sell… not to mention how social media fits in.

The biggest misconception is that soft selling somehow removes the act of making an offer… and that couldn’t be further from the truth.

Credibility and Trust

Soft selling doesn’t mean “Stop offering”.

When you use a soft sell strategy, you focus on building credibility and trust with your prospective clients AND maintaining credibility and trust with your exisiting clients. When you ultimately do make an offer (and don’t fool yourself- at some point you must know how to ask for someone’s business), it’s done from a place of knowing exactly who that person is and what the best resource is for them.

Hard selling is when you’re more concerned with what YOU’RE going to get as opposed to the transformation your client needs. You see this everyday as people walk around in buyer’s remorse, feeling swindled after being convinced to sign onto something that didn’t feel right to begin with. If you’ve ever had a bad experience with a used car salesperson, you know what I mean.

You Still Have to Talk About Money

So if you think that soft selling means you never have to address prices, or you’ll never need to send a promotional email again… well, that’s way off course.

Yes, you still need to make offers BUT when you’ve provided value, proven your credibility, and gained the trust of your followers, then the process flows without force.

Social media is a tool that enables you to focus on value, credibility, and trust giving your followers more reasons to break down their “don’t pitch me” defenses and to actually hear what you have to offer.

At the end of the day it’s all about honoring and respecting the relationships you’ve formed with your target market and prospective clients.

This is barely scratching the surface of the topic but I have a great resource for more information.

Starting August 26, Natasha Allrich and I are presenting a 4 week teleseries called Soft Selling with Social Media.

We’ll teach you step by step how to attract and engage your ideal clients, then we’ll teach you exactly how to turn those hot leads into ready to buy clients.

The 1st 150 people who sign up for this program will also get a special invitation only call with a successful entrepreneur who makes incredible money using smart strategies with a heart based sensibility.

Soft Selling with Social Media is now enrolling. If you’re ready to grow your business authentically and learn how to connect with people who love your work, then this is for you.

Check it out, join this movement and do share your soft sell success stories with me in the comments!

Click here to learn how to transform your business with the Soft Selling with Social Media proven system.


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About Nancy Marmolejo

I'm a soul-driven strategist who teaches entrepreneurs how to turn followers into fans and fans into clients using social media and heart based marketing. My approach integrates proven strategies and intuitive hits so each client finds her special way to stand out and sizzle in the spotlight.

  • http://www.prosperouscoachblog.com Rhonda Hess, Coachin

    Great distinction. If you don't make a compelling offer, it's unlikely anyone will buy. But speaking your market's language is what it's all about. That's the soft or heart sell.
    .-= Rhonda Hess, Coaching Business Success Strategist´s last blog ..Five Time Saving Resources for Coaches =-.

  • http://www.OnlineVideoBranding.com Lou Bortone

    This is a subject I'm fascinated with and I look forward to listening to the replay of your call. How do you make sure that you're heard above all the noise without sounding like you're constantly shouting from the mountaintop? I find it's a very fine line between offering value and making your services available to those who need them. Though I market relentlessly – a habit left over from my TV days – I probably "give away" too much for free… Still trying to find that perfect balance… -Lou
    .-= Lou Bortone´s last blog ..The Ballad of the Lost Twitter Tweeps! (1 min) =-.

  • http://www.vivavisibilityblog.com Nancy Marmolejo

    There are certain shouts people WANT to hear, I think that is a big distinction, Lou. I'm calling it the "pheronome effect". When your followers fall in love with you and value what you offer, they're so much more open to your offers. That, in my opinion, is a relationship goal worth pursuing!

  • http://www.vivavisibilityblog.com Nancy Marmolejo

    Rhonda, you're an absolute master at this strategy! You understand so well the importance of the relationship and allowing people to be heard through the making of an offer (as opposed to one person talking and not listening).

    Always an honor to have your comments here! :-)
    nancy

  • http://www.michelepw.com/blog Michele PW

    Hi Nancy,

    I love what you're saying here. I always tell people you're doing your prospects a disservice when you DON'T sell because you're allowing them to get in their own way and not take that "big leap" with you. If you don't do everything you can to get your message out in the world, you're cheating not only yourself but your prospects who really NEED what you're selling. Your course is going to rock!
    .-= Michele PW´s last blog ..How Vampires Can Help Your Biz =-.