Stand Out by Engaging Your Audience: Here’s How


Find an "Elephant Under the Rug" topic to stir things up

Yesterday I posted about engaging your followers… and how it’s not always that easy. Remember that first high school dance? Remember any social situation where you felt awkward? Nobody started off knowing how to flawlessly engage. We’re all learning on our feet!

Here’s a real life example of people jumping into a topic and getting lots of visibility from it.

I love to post “Elephant Under the Rug” topics… things that are on my mind that nobody seems to be talking about (but they SHOULD be talking about).

For instance, I’m up to my ears in telesummits. Like any cool idea, once it gets overdone it ceases to be cool and turns into a parody of itself.

So I posted a thought on Facebook:

Nancy Marmolejo I’m happy that so many people are doing telesummits to build their businesses, but I’m getting numb to SO MANY of them. How about we mash it up a bit peeps? Who said each call has to be 60 minutes? Let’s break the mold, it’s getting moldy!!

That single update was followed by a slew of reactions… all supportive of my opinion. This isn’t even all of the comments, but gives you a good idea of what can happen when you post a provocative topic.

And guess what I’m working on now? I’ll tell you at the end of this post.

Ej Shamesagreed!! 20 min is a good amount of time. !!

Lisa KlineAgreed. My attention span for these is about 20 minutes.

Ken DonaldsonI like it…I’ll start immediately…The 20 minute telesummit.com!!

Ej Shamesoohhh.. Ken!! you are fast!!

Nancy MarmolejoPeople, we are moving and shaking things up. Seriously… Ken you get that going and make sure you have EJ as a guest. She’s got an 18 min and 40 second talk!!

Shawn Driscoll You’ve heard me say it before Nancy..the adult mind can only stay ‘passive listener’ for a maximum of 20 minutes. Then–multitasking, mindwandering, and all that numbs us from taking more in takes over. Engage folks…..or lose them. Love the idea of a 15 minute format! or 18.5 minutes even better!

Terri McMahon Zwierzynski I think we’ve got something here with the 20 minutes max concept!

MaryPat Kavanagh What an amazing conversation! I LOVE it!

Stacy Newman Karacostas Great ideas here! I too am suffering a bit of telesummit overwhelm lately. And I LOVE both giving and listening to twenty minute talks. You can get enough meat in there without losing folks.

Ej, I’m with you on the transcripts. I’m a super-fast reader and a so-so listener so I’d rather read the transcripts than listen to the audio.

On a slightly different note, I’d also like to put forth a motion that presentations at live events last no more than 1:15. My attention span, my back and my bladder all have trouble making it much longer and it seems the new trend is a tortuous 1:30. :-)

Pat Fortin Mussieux I’m with you, Nancy – I’m a person of few, but powerful, words! Yup – shake it up, baby……

Stacey Hylen Yes I agree and this will be my 4th year doing Business Optimization Week and @Nancy you were my only 2 time speaker since you got such rave reviews! I am going to shake it up this year.

I hosted another event www.RapidProfitBoosters.com last year and it was all 20 mins per speaker. The funny thing is that I heard one of my speakers at anohter event the same month and he did the same content in an hour that he presented in 20 mins in my interview!!

Nili Marcia Remembering the line “Half again.” from A River Runs Through It where father edited son’s writing, telling him to cut it in half. Being forced to be succinct makes us think more clearly. I’m not too thrilled by the flip side, though, which is short =’s shallow.

And here’s the answer to what I’m working on right now: you got it, a 20 minute presentation!

Feeling inspired? Here are some immediate action steps you can take:

  • Find an “Elephant Under the Rug” topic and see how your audience responds. (Note: don’t turn it into a bitchfest, be sure to focus on solutions)
  • Share an intelligent comment or idea in response to someone else’s update
  • Practice a compelling 20 minute presentation that does the job!

What are your thoughts?


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About Nancy Marmolejo

I'm a soul-driven strategist who teaches entrepreneurs how to turn followers into fans and fans into clients using social media and heart based marketing. My approach integrates proven strategies and intuitive hits so each client finds her special way to stand out and sizzle in the spotlight.

  • http://virtualeventsuccess.com Leesa Barnes

    I've been thinking about the 20-minute format and it has to be well thought out. For example, how do you provide value to speakers if they only have 20-mins? Just being in your aura isn't a powerful incentive. Or, how do you leverage the content after the telesummit is over? And how do you engage attendees so they keep coming to you for more even after the telesummit is done?I have answers to these questions, but I'm going to test this model first. Stating that 20-mins is the model to use for telesummits going forward isn't good enough. Others have used the 20-minute format in the past, so this model is not new. However, where they have fallen is that they didn't consider the questions I posted above. I challenge your readers Nancy to not only refresh their telesummits with the 20-min format, but also put it into practice AND share the case study. I look forward to the results.

  • http://www.VivaVisibilityBlog.com NancyMarmolejo

    Good challenge!I've done plenty of media spots that were very brief yet informative and also spoken at networking lunches where they only give you 20 minutes… so it IS doable in those formats and I'm sure can be transferred to teleseminars.You say you have answers to your questions… and inquiring minds want to know so please post a link to where you're working these ideas out! thanks for your spicy input!!

  • Kay Ballard

    Nancy, I consider you a true expert at telesummits because you have spoken, and continue to speak, at so many. That makes hearing you say that that '"telesummits have become parodies of themselves" very fun and refreshing.I agree with Leesa that shortening the length of the individual presentations isn't necessarily the best answer to making a telesummt stand out while being both attractive and useful to the audience of potential purchasers. However, as both a producer and consumer of such content, I am thoroughly fascinated by the conversation–the comments and the questions raised.Many of us are engaged in the same challenging task–balancing what we know and learn about "what works" with what we believe to be the value of presenting content in a fresh and original manner.

  • http://www.VivaVisibilityBlog.com NancyMarmolejo

    Great points Kay!So what I'm hearing you and Leesa say (which I wholeheartedly agree with) is that length isn't as big an issue as is quality. So maybe what got me grumbling was the frustration of enduring medoicrity in 60 minute increments. ;-)

  • Wendy

    Hi Nancy. I recently joined a local Toastmasters club and it really teaches the most effective way to be an organized and succinct speaker. I highly recommend it for anyone who does public speaking or who just wants to be a better communicator. I often do public presentations but this organization is helping me be a better communicator.

  • http://www.VivaVisibilityBlog.com NancyMarmolejo

    That's a great tip Wendy, thank you! Speaking in front of a live audience is the best way to see what engages them or not… just look and see who's paying attention. Congrats!

  • http://twitter.com/KateWilliams Kate Williams–Coach

    In another lifetime, a different role, I used an accelerated learning model to plan course sessions, presentations, seminars and workshops. The aim was to reduce learning time, cover more material and energize the learning process. One of the positions of accelerated learning practitioners is that it's the joy of learning that is often the major determiner of the quality and quantity of learning. This joy of learning "means interest, connectedness, and the involved and happy creation of meaning and understanding and value on the part of the learner. If we focus on the learner and the outcomes (accelerated learning, joy in learning), then we will find the most effective ways to engage with our audience. It won't be a formula and a specific time or a new technology that will "fix" our telesummits, events and presentations. It will be whatever we do to make learning a whole-body, whole-mind, whole-person experience.[Whoo hooo! Kate's Soapbox. Standing down :-) ]

  • http://www.VivaVisibilityBlog.com NancyMarmolejo

    Stay on the soapbox Kate, you're saying great stuff!!